I consider myself somewhat of an expert “poofer” if you will.

Having lived through the past year, fully immersed in the new, exciting and only occasionally disappointing world of dating apps as a newly single, 40-something woman I have done my fair share of disappearing and yes, some have poofed me as well. The reporter wanted to know why this happens and if there isn’t some better way to end the relationship/stop the communication. The topic was about online dating and how sometimes one of the parties disappears – either during the texting phase or sometimes after a date or two. This morning I responded to a query that was posted on HARO (Help A Reporter Out).